So regarding that aspect I can totally agree, but another reviewer who pointed the metaphor out made a couple observations about that. Any other time Disney has attempted to do something more obvious and owned to it, it's been done so small and easy to edit out in any fashion for other countries. (Rise of Skywalker, Onward etc.) When it's done like Luca, the metaphor is right there, but nothing's getting edited out or changed. Yes it still sucks they're not owning up to the metaphor, though if they did then the whole movie wouldn't be distributed in places...would be fun if the studio stood their ground and did, though.
Also, it's better than previous attempts where they were fully open and announcing there's a queer character/moment and...it's so tiny that the whole thing felt like a pandering slap.