That is an insane amount of projecting and twisting my words.
To start, I was called a gate keeper for using the clue in context that Eilish was divisive.
After that, I mocked Eilish/her marketing team WHOEVERS decision it was to scrap her house to change looks for an upcoming album. I mocked her because everyone on this forum would KILL for the chance to help design a house and she tossed it away for blonde hair and *what I perceive to be* a prettier, more polished image. I am stating this because that’s everything I know about how the situation went down. If someone has better info, please enlighten me. I also personally didn’t like this move for her follow up album and think that album should have been titled More Boring Than Ever. This part of the drama has nothing to do with her making her own decisions - I just happen to think the choices made were lame.
I even tried to relate this whole scenario to something I would have an inherent bias towards only for these two to ignore because their minds about me being a misogynist were already made up.
And BTW Rob Zombie is on his own record label and not a major label now. He can and does whatever the f- he wants and I’m in no way a fan of his. I thought Hellbilly Deluxe was lame a- idea until experiencing it and it turned out to be my favorite scarezone. We could be talking about a performer named Roberta Zombie here and the same applies. GENDER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT. Zombie has horror themed songs and images. Eilish has…”Funeral For A Friend?” Which is just sad and depressing and not very fun, unlike “Dragula” or “Living Dead Girl.”
I think this all boiled down to the cult of celebrity and people here associating their personality and self-worth with that of a pop culture figure. It’s the same nonsense Trump supporters, Ye fans, The Beyhive, and Swifties do. If you don’t like something their leader does or dig at them, you’re the biggest sexist, racist, misogynist, a-hole etc in the world.
I find it absolutely embarrassing a moderator on this board took this situation so far and added flames to the fire by calling me a misogynist.
Before I take a step back and ignore this place for a good long while, Allison, this is for you…enjoy!! :grin:
I mean, you continue to escalate this and twist words. You're openly stating in this comment even that you're mocking intentionally. I have no intention of mixing things up or making things worse and truly think this could be a simple discussion (and think this thread is a much easier place to have it without the conversation being mixed up with speculation talk).
I was the one who brought up gatekeeping in the thread and it was done without directing it at you as an attack, but rather as a whole about how the term isn't unfair being used sometimes with how the community acts occasionally. You can see that post
here. It had nothing to do with Billie being divisive and I thought it was a basic back-and-forth with no hard feelings about properties like FNAF being brought up. It only escalated once you made the post I previously quoted which can be found
here.
Said moderator was actually the one who tried to douse the flames by begging not to go down that road
here. You chose to continue on which is when they finally stepped in and joined the fray. Others were already saying your statements were out of hand prior to that.
Fandom can absolutely be toxic, but it shouldn't be used blindly as a shield from criticism either. I'm at best a casual Billie fan. I enjoyed her first EP and album and have mixed feelings towards her new one. I've never seen her live and don't see that changing as it's a bit out of my price range for the amount I enjoy the body of work. I still think your comments took a turn for the sexist quite a few times and highlighted quite a few of those moments. Many, many people liked the posts claiming that you took that route as well. What are the odds that every single one of those individuals only feels that way due to the "cult of celebrity"?
Comments like "I mocked her because everyone on this forum would KILL for the chance to help design a house and she tossed it away for blonde hair and *what I perceive to be* a prettier, more polished image." continue to run down that path and be completely oblivious to how the music industry works quite honestly. She was already holding off her new era just for the opportunity to do HHN, a thing she has stated she loves. The event got canceled and she chose to continue her career rather than put off all of the music, art, etc she had created for a full year (possibly more since we had no clue how COVID would go) just to take place in a Halloween event. She was no longer going to be in that lane creatively in her new era and chose to step away. There's nothing wrong with that. It has nothing to do with her interest in horror and continues to have nothing to do with her personal appearance. The insinuation that going blonde and making yourself up a certain way removes your validity in a genre/scene/fandom is silly. I wear feminine things at times and I wear black, goth apparel sometimes. It doesn't mean my participation in the scene is any less valid because I look a different way that day. You could have just as easily said "she chose to move away from horror" without the other jabs.
I really have no desire to make this a discussion of jabs, but stopped enjoying the speculation talk when it turned into constant little pokes in that direction when it really wasn't bringing anything to the discussion. There's no need for you to leave by any means. It just may be worth considering the fact that several people have mentioned now that those comments make them uncomfortable.