^This. Before I moved to Orlando, I had to live by the updates of locals. I'd appreciate as many updates as I could get. Six years later I still understand and try to grab a few shots to post (when someone hasn't already beat me to it) whenever I can. I don't see it as rude, disrespectful or ungrateful to ask if/when anyone is planning a trip to take pics. My old midwest self remembers how painful the waiting can be.