Just wanted to make a few points:
I'm glad y'all are coming to this forum to discuss HHN; that your love of something drove you to get involved in this community to discuss the event with other fellow nerds. Despite our efforts to control the discussions on HHN - we control it to make the conversation as broad as possible to all levels of the fandom; from rookies to pros, from occasional visitors to the "every year" crowd. It's never been about anything else other than that.
As
@Legacy pointed out, misogyny does exist. I've seen actors, specifically female actors, get abused by guests verbally and physically. None of us want to see anyone deal with that.
And
@Allison 's story and post weren't meant to paint all anti-Billie haunt takes as misogynists, either - but merely pointing out it exists. For example, Vanity Ball had a lot of opposition because "gay" when that shouldn't be criteria for rating a zone. That doesn't mean if you didn't like Vanity Ball, you were anti-LGBTQ+, but that also doesn't negate the fact that there are those people who exist and add to the toxicity.
I mean, look at this site. The ratio of male to female is very skewed. (Side note: I've been meaning to add additional options of gender beyond Male or Female, but the forum software only allows "Other". I'll look again to see if I can add more.)
Point is - I really don't care if you're on the left or right, rookie or a pro, an insider or a newbie. All I care about is not being an a-hole to other people.